Can anyone help me to find a support group,for the ...

can anyone help me to find a support group,for the last 6 years i have had 2 spinal fusion surgeries,a complete hysterectomy?the pain gets so bad that i cant even get out of the bed and can last 5 days out of the 7 days in a week.i am now on complete disability i have seen more doctors than i can count and they dont know what to do next.i can go 3 or 4 days without eating at all not even a bowl of soup.i have  been to several stomach doctors and they run all the test that they could but still no one has been able to figure out whats wrong with me.i have lost so much weight and i dont know what should happen next to help me.i have been trying to get my doctor send me to a research hospital and they havent done anything yet.im only 36 years old but i feel so much older,so could someone try to help,if theres anybody that has been through the same things that i am,maybe you could tell me how you deal with it,im just about ready to pull out all my hair.