Not being a woman I can only go by what I have been told or read. But the location of the clitoris is in such a place that might not get stimulated during sex but need direct stimulation while a male’s penis is just a large clitoris that gets stimulated because of friction during sex. Many women press their clitoris against the male pubic area to get stimulation or do it by hand. Not all women can orgasm from insertion alone and it's a BIG mistake to tell her she is not normal.
Ladies I will take all correction and rebuke if I have been misinformed.
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