My son was married on saturday june 27. It was a beautiful day.
However after being given the agenda for pic's the photographer change the location, and an overbearing mom of the bride. I the mom ...
You need to scheduel a special family day with your son and his new bride. get as many of your family togetehr as you can, hire a photographer to take a group portrait (look on craigslist, it should not costmuch) and ask everyone to dress up.
meet at a park, have a picnic, and treasure your time with them.
After that, if you still get upset about the wedding day, you will just neet to let it go.