Posted by Kojo 3 years ago In:

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Kojo Asked:

I want things to be well between the two of us

I met this girl in school, her name is Mariam Akinwunmi, she became my friend, and we were free with eachother till i fell in love with her, now i told her the truth and she rejected my proposal, i told her that i still like her and she likes me too and she got angry.. now she is being hstile towards me, and i want her to be my friend again or accept my proposal, what should i do so that things will work out between the two of us?

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giggibb Answered:

First thing you should NEVER do is use her name at all on the internet. I don't think she might like it and it is also for privacy.You can just call her "this girl." Don't push yourself on her, give her room to breathe. If you are too pushy in showing her your interest or love, she will be turned off. Go slowly, and give her a chance to decide if she feels about you the way you do about her. And if she doesn't, it is ok. You can find other girls later who like you. How old are you? you sound very young...

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shy_guy Answered:

You approach too directly,try to find out what type of guy he likes,and if you are unfortunately not among her list try different approach.Since you are friends I believe you know pretty much of what she wants....why don't you try to slide up slowly,be funny and caring (as a friend,but if you stay in the friend zone too long..poof)always be there for her.Don't give up,explain you were sorry for rushing into things,and if luckily she forgive you????always remember that friendship can always tranforms into love..all you have to do is ..give it some time..when the time comes you will know

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Kojo Answered:

I am 17 years of age....but she seems to hate me now, but sometimes she's cool on me what should i do to get hope that she will be my close friend again?

Posted 3 years ago

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giggibb Answered:

Just be nice to her but don't push yourself on her. If she is not interested in you, no matter what you do, it will not change her. Why don't you just concentrate on making friends (real friends, it is not all always about sex) with other boys and girls and maybe you may find somebody later. Don't be pushy, it is a turn off. Just enjoy your friends and do other things to stay busy and keep your mind off this girl who doesn't seem to care about you.

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shy_guy Answered:

Hmmmm..... I'm not a love doctor but from past experience I have been acquanted with few tips regarding the situation you are in right now. So heres what I want you to do...listen closely...as I have mentioned earlier, I guess you knew her well and so on...so i believe you know what she wants and what really matters for her. So I would like you to start giving her gifts which I believe you know.girl loves gift okkkkk. Try to make up to her but strictly on a friendly basis. After you do this,post another scrape and i will get to you again.

P.S- This should work...I believe