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For the past few months, i have been meeting up ...

For the past few months, i have been meeting up with a married man who is a friend of the family. We would sit and talk for hours about anything and everything. Recently, we changed that level of friendship to being more flirty and in turn leading to having sexual encounters. emotionally we are both involved now. I know he isn't happy with his marriage, but how do i end it when i truly value my friendship with him...

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DB Lady
DB Lady Answered:

 You should not encourage any kind of sexual relationship with a married man.  You are going to ruin other people's lives.  Please discontinue this and respect yourself.

   Find someone unattached and available to give you the love and companionship you need.  Take care.

Be honest and be true to yourself.
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mom
mom Answered:

dogbreeder is right wether hes in a bad marriage or not think about how this will effect everyone around you its not fair for you to bring innecent people into something that is not morally right this has disasster written all over it. not only should you respect yourself  respect others  good luck and do the roght thing

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grace
grace Answered:

I think you should clearly move away from this relationship for awhile!

You will be fine without this fella, and he will be fine without you.

Let things happen without you being the reason why they happen.

You will not have any guilt, and you can always ccontinue this after he decides what he wants. Too much involved when you are the reason........

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Skitch
Skitch Answered:

It is almost impossible to return to being just friends once sex has been in the picture.  You can try, but I doubt if he will be able to just see you as a friend.  It is time to do the responsible thing and call the whole thing off.  You will miss his freindship.  Friends are hard to find sometimes, but he needs to make decisions about his life.  Would he leave his wife if the two of you had never taken this path?  Or is it having sex with another woman that has made his marriage unhappy.

Walk away, Mossie.  There is no future in that relationship

~ "Those who are free of resentful thoughts surely find peace." Buddha ~ S.N.O.T.S., Inc. ~ ~
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Precious
Precious Answered:

As hard as it may be, you should just tell him that you want him but you can't have him all to yourself so the relationship has to end. If he really wants you, then he can take care of it the legal way. If the legal way can't happen, then just take it as a total lost because you can't play with fire, you'll just get burned.

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