Discuss Cassidyfan's answer to: How often do you and your husband/wife or ...

I think it's very healthy to have couple time, if it is something you want. As with everything it's down to the couple. You don't say how old your children are but so long as they're left with someone familiar they'll be fine.

Mine love to have weekends at family member's houses, maybe you could start by having them spend a night or two away before the trip?