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Hi Jay,
No offence, please, but that is the normal case: Relations are finished and the love dissapears..... Your question indicates that you still love your ex-partner..... Better wake up from your dreanm and face the reality.... Your partner doesn't love you and those relations are (most probably) over..... so better concentrate on finding someone that deserves you...... or you can try to ignite your ex to love you again (happened more than once !)......
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Love is the battery of life....

Hi Jay , OronD my friend gave you a very good answer 2 thumbs up . I am sorry you are going through this . The fact is you can't make her love you and really if you think about it you don't want to even try it will cause you more heartache . She may come back for a short time , but if she is not in love with you she will be gone again . Sad to say but yes it is reality time . You are mourning the loss of her and the death of the relationship. Not much different than an actual death of a spouse , girlfriend or boyfriend , it is a loss .  Give yourself some time , allow yourself to mourn it is part of the healing process .  I know this is easy for me to say , but there is a Woman for you who will return her love to you .  Give yourself some time . You will find inner peace and happiness .  I wish you the best .

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She is your ex for a reason. Obviously the 2 of you had problems that you couldn't resolve. When people break up, they tend to only remember the good and forget the reason they're broken up. Sometimes it helps to remind yourself of the bad and why you're not together. It is normal to still have feelings for your ex, but if there is no chance of getting back together, it is best to try to get over her.

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