Discuss brosen's answer to: Times are tough. Long distence, Heart ache and lack of communication!

Bobby, in interpersonal relationships there is only so much you can do and you have done as much as you can. You cannot force it so you will have to hope that being patient will eventually pay off but there is no guarantee. You indicated there is no father figure in her home and that her mother has been married three times and all that also does not bode well for you. I think you should look for new friendships and relationships where you are now. It will be difficult for you to start but it will be worth the effort. Find someone from a more stable home like yours and you will find the chances for a healthy and strong relationship will be much greater.