HOw can you have a downtime for family or pleasure when you have to work more than 8 hours per day to augment the income for basic needs?
You have to decide what is most important to you in your life. Yes we all have to work in order to make a living but having said that if you leave no time for your family then you're family will be a thing of the past and you wont have one anymore just a collection of disassociated individuals wondering what went wrong. Yes do your work and how ever boring or frustrating it me seem at the time the rewards will become self evident. But I would say that family is the most important if not the most important of all because they are your loved ones and in order for them to feel loved by you must truly love them and this must come not only from your words but from your actions as well. You can make time for them you just have to want to make time for them. And if your family relations are difficult for you then you must simply apply more effort and attention to them in order to bring the family together so to speak. Best wishes to a successful and happy family life!