Discuss OronD's answer to: He is the best thing happened to me..he loves me.please understand his psychology and help me out

i and my bf tom are in a relationship since last 1 year.. we are both 20 year old and plan to get married in few years.its a very serious relationship.He is a very nice..innocent guy. i was his first ...

I truely hope that you are an open person so I won't need to sugarcoat my words.  You and your boyfriend have very high morals / values.  You live in the 21st centuray but you (both) behave and live as if it is still the 17 century).  Come on, at 20 years old you (both) should be much more open and free (and get knowing each other more !). 
His reaction is a yellow flag of warning.  What did you do wrong ?  Nothing.  But he treats you as if you did the worst possible crime.  Why did he cahnge so dramatically ?  He has absolutely no reason for that !.  I have the feeling he wants to get rid of you, doesn't know how to do it, doesn't want to hurt you so he found a good exuse to do it..... or he is a wierdo..... 
You love his attitude, his honesty, him being a gentleman, the way he treats you, his morals / values, that is really great but not enough......
What your father did is bad but it is not your fault and you are not the one to blame / punish. 
Please don't be clingy.  If he prefers to bring this relations to an end (saying: "better leave me") do it !.  Don't let him feel he is doing you any favors. 
Sorry to say it but:  Wake up, leave the 17 century and come to the 21st century, with openess + laughs + love + dancing + jokes + entertaiments + parties + fun....... 
Bottom line:  I am not sure this man can bring you real happiness.   

Sorry AKP, I have values too and truth is one of them.  I wrote exactly what I think and if I hurt you in any way I appologize from the bottom of my heart.  I only wanted to open your eyes,     G-d bless.

Love is the battery of life....
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