What does "stop dealing in absolutes"
There's no "hidden" meaning to that phrase. It usually means that one should stop seeing the world or a certain issue, as black or white. For example, if you don't support Obama for presidency, than you must be a racist. I that case, the person who refers to you as racist is Dealing in Absolutes.
I hope I was clear.
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