"I have been a loner for most of my life. I have had very few people in my life whom I would consider to be close friends. I am quiet and very shy in my personality. I consider my self to be very unique, and that has at times made me feel like I do not belong. I am closeted and I have never told anyone in real life that I am gay, mainly because I feared that I would be subjected to constant bullying and harassment. This is also a reason behind me having very few friends; I thought they would reject me. I have never known any other gay men, I would like to get to know some so that I can learn from them and understand how different and similar we are. I hope this site will help me improve my confidence and help me become more comfortable with myself so that I can live a satisfying life, and be able to befriend all types of people.
It is hard to put in words, specifically what I am looking for. I really want someone who is kind, considerate, thoughtful, interesting, funny, sweet, sensitive, respectful, and all around a person that I will want to spend time. I am looking for those traits in any person I connect with on a person level. It does not matter if I am just friends with the person or if I am in a romantic relationship with them. I would like anyone I am involved with to have all the traits that I have mentioned. I also want to be able to know that our relationships are strong enough to withstand any kind of conflict and that no matter what there is unconditional support and forgiveness."