Oh my gosh I dont know where to begin. My Ex from 10 yrs ago just went through the big "D" I have only contacted him once since when his dad died. Until today! But I think about him a few times a year I really did love him at one time and we were young and dumb and he had just got a divorce from his cheater wife! I still talked to his grandma up to a few months ago I only called her I dont live near her. Well today I looked him up because I was worried about his grandma and I missed her. Two numbers were listed and the first one I called was his ex wife I had no idea they had a divorce and she explained she was his ex now! I dont know if I was upset because his grandma died or what I lost it I said"Are you sure you to cant get back together isnt there anything that can be done?" Oh, I went on telling her she should try and make it work! It was like I didnt want her to make the same mistake I did! She has no idea who I am and she was shocked at what I said! Along with me! I just kept going on and on and I dont know if I was worried about him going through a divorce a death all combined I dont know! What do I do? She offered me his cell phone I was like no, no, no, but I do have his his home phone what do I do! I look like an idiot I know she will tell him how stupid I was. Although I didnt tell her my name I just said I was an old friend of the family! What do I do! I need damage control. I feel like a flake!
