Jealousy is a monster. Using sex to cause a significant other embarrassment or anger, is the surest recipe I can think of for murder. Anyone reckless enough to consider it is truly suicidal, needs emergency law enforcement and psychiatric intervention -- IMMEDIATELY!
XXX, if you hold your man in sufficient contempt to take your life in your hands that way, then the best move is to part on good terms immediately and get the counseling you need before you try that on the wrong guy.
It is a deadly serious issue, there is absolutely no fun in it, it is death waiting, and you will be in the wrong when you try such a reckless, immoral, and feather-brain stunt. Whatever else you have been reading in Cosmo is equally reckless and stupid, hence to be avoided at all costs.
"Whatever else you have been reading in Cosmo is equally reckless and stupid..." Was this "How to humiliate [your man]...using sex" actually the topic (or, subject) of a Cosmo[politan] Magazine article?