Discuss babe's answer to: Seriously Screwed Up!

Why didnt you talk to your wife before you had the affair .if she doesnt have sex with you does not  mean that she doesnt love you. when you have children sometimes it separates couples and its hard to be romantic with each other.the kids have to come first always and they take up all your time.if i was you I would stop the affair and change things with your wife. tell her you have had an affair, she will probely want to leave you at first but make changes with her . prove you love her and just mayb she will forgive you .she knows there is something wrong already. you can bet your your life on it