What to say to a man that wants to meet you just for sex? i've never given him that idea about me. It's very humiliating. I've dated the same guy that totally respectes me and was in awe with "just me". He is a major market new anchor, successful, etc. Due to logistics, our relationship is making room for dating other people. It's not necessary over, and is a possibility, as well. This person's attitude I haven't encountered since high school. It is new territory for me. I thought this guy was a very nice guy. He basically told me he wanted to come visit to me to have sex. I had no way to respond without seeming like i was whining. I have nothing verbose and meaningful to make a strong point that strikes a cord or gives gives me the power to communicate to him how low-down he is. I have forever been quick witted, fast on the draw, made my point succinctly. I'm now at a loss for words.
Is the man that just wants you for sex the same as the man you were in the relationship with? If so, you tell him "No thanks, that's not what I'm looking for" in either those words or your own. You don't have to be nice about it either, so telling him to take a flying leap (so to speak) is perfectly ok.
If it's a different man, then you tell him "How odd, when I first met you I thought you were a nice guy but now I know you're just an enormous penis. Sorry, not interested." Again, you can substitute any word of your choice for "penis." Might I suggest "dickhead?"
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