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My mom shot herself 2 yrs ago. Big family fight ...

My mom shot herself 2 yrs ago. Big family fight afterwards. I'm afrikaans white and racest . My dad had affair with cleaning black lady. I decided to stand by my dad no mater what. The 3 families hunt us down. Mission to kill, we ran between hospitals and police. I moved since from Safrica to Ireland and my dad is coming to visit, I decided to tell dad to bring Letty with, They been together since and I thought I should give them my blessing. Am I doing the right thing, I have not found any person that would make the same choses I did. Am I a crazy person mentaly not right

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psygib Answered:

I do have to say its good that you support your dad no matter what that is your dad. Not eveything is a bad thing if mom is not around to love as well cherish the family you do have for 1 day they or you could be gone dont regret the love you have

Posted 2 years ago

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DB Lady Answered:

Janice,

You're right. There is nothing wrong for your father to bring Letty. Your mom

passed away and your dad is entitled to be happy. That's very nice of you to be

accepting of Letty.

Take care.

Posted 2 years ago

Be honest and be true to yourself.

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Janice Answered:

Do not know if you believe in a God, I don't for a very long time 10 yrs. But I use to do card readings but grow past them and then my dreams. I know when some one is going to die, I will dream he or she is pregnant. If close to me I dream I am pregnant (family or dear friends) Since moved My dreams changed.
When making the decition about my dad I felt so peaceful, not hate for anybody or understanding. For 2 yrs I found every person I did wrong to since junior school and made right untill today. I also had been sick with ear infection. My last dream showed me getting married again and me and my hussband divorced. I was in white dress walking the ile. I never saw the other man. When reading the meaning this is what it said.
If the dreamer is a bride this person found a wish fulfilment and indicattion of a close or emotional tie. If the dreamer is ill his own death is donated

Thank you for the response and advice.

Posted 2 years ago

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Bonestructure Answered:

Yes, I do think you're doing the right thing. People fall in love with who they fall in love with. The heart doesn't see skin color. If your dad is happy, celebrate that. Happiness is damned hard to find. And I know many quite wonderful South Africans who would have no problem with it at all.