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What should I do?

I am from Asia.My bf & me are within 5 years relationship.I intended to marry him.Now he is dating for a girl.I don't wana to break with him.On the otherside,I want to hear he says "Let's break".But problem is he says"I don't know.As u wish.Let'forget that"We had living together for 2 years & 6 months.My country 's culture is not to accept sex before marriage.I loved him with all my heart,my mind.New one is not impossible to me.All my love already given him.I have no more love.Now I am suffering pain.Please help me!

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NJOY
NJOY Answered:

Sorry to tell you, but if he is "dating another girl" then he is not in love with you as deeply as you are with him, because you say you've given your love to him and you want no other.  He does want another.  That's the sad part.  You know better than to stay with this guy, and you surely know not to marry him.  You know also that if he cheats on you now, he will most likely do it again in the future.  If and when you can, you need to go ahead and make the break up permanent.  I am sorry.

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Iamjustcurious
Iamjustcurious Answered:

You need to move on.  Your bf is already gone.  People can and do change.  You need to accept the fact that people can fall out of love as often as they fall in love.  So find yourself a new bf.  By the time you do, your old bf is no longer an issue.

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larna Answered:

If I were you, I would move on as there is no point in forcing a relationship to work. What's worse is that this so-called man that you love so much, can even go for other girls knowing that doing this will break and hurt your heart. Does this person deserve anymore of your affection?

Only yourself has the best answer to this question.

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Skitch
Skitch Answered:

It can take a long time for the heart to heal and I know how hard it must be for you.  You gave him your virginity and to you, that is like giving him everything.  I know it feels like you have no more love to give someone else, but once you get back on your feet and begin to live again, you will find that love is boundless.  You always have more love to give.  First though, you need to heal from the hurt this man has done to you. Cry, scream, mourn his loss, but then you need to begin to live again.   Fill your time with activities.  Try not to spend time alone.  Get rid of pictures, clothing or gifts that remind you of him.  Say goodbye to him in your heart.  This isn't going to get better over night, but it will get better in time if you try to keep moving.  Get up each day.  Run errands or go to school or go to your job, but keep yourself moving.

I wish you nothing but the best and I am truly sorry you are going through this pain.  It will get better in time.  I promise.  Just hang in there.

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