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Relationship with married man

i have been seeing a married man for 1year he decided to leave his wife which he as done i found out he was having sex with her towards end of their relationship and he told me he wasnt can i trust this man and can i have a good relationship with him?

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You can probably trust him as far as you can sling him with one hand. Why wouldn't he be having sex with her. He was married to her and he probably still finds her desirable in that way. He will tell you anything to keep you where he wants you so he can have you and her too. Did your affair with him break them up? Sometimes a man just likes the idea of "new stuff" and that is what it will be to him untill he gets tired of the new and starts looking for newer stuff.Some men are 'true blue" and some are just plain old "dirty old men", you have to decide which one you want and how far you want to go to get it.Breaking up a marriage want cut the mustard in my book.Good luck.

Your direction,not your intentions,determines your destination. .

Forget him, before he will leave you to another woman as similar as he leave his wife for you

Hi, You need to get out of the relationship. He is not a trustworthy man. You will be the next person to be cheated on. LEAVE HIM !!!! There are other good men out there. Don't settle with this cheater.

Be honest and be true to yourself.

How did you find out in the first place.....maybe more andwers are there!  Its a gamble! Guess you have to ask yourself is he worth the pain you might experience if he does lie to you?

No if he married his wife and cheated with you what makes you think he won't cheat on you!!!!! He'll tell you your different bull.......Run hard and fast.

Hello tlc. Listen to someone who has been there, and find a man who's available, someone said on this site and I could not have said it better myself, if he will do it with you he'll do it to you. Take care.

Always protect your heart and listen to yourself make good choices. be careful for what you wish for you just might get it and find out later it was not what you wanted after all.

To answer you, if he was sleeping with you while married- i wouldn't trust him. If he did it with her and you hooked up, then he'd probably do the same to you. As the saying goes a zebra can't change his stripes. Good luck.

First of all it's not a matter of if you could trust him or not.. I feel that you're smart enough to answer that yourself, since you're asking the question deep down you already know the answer. Fist of all he is a marry man so you'll never have a solid relationship with him, for a few reasons your relationship with this man was based on a lie. He could only call you when the wife wasn't around could only see you in stolen moments and holidays 99% of them you spend alone, because his 1st priority was his wife and children if any were involved. 2nd I know you want to believe that he loved you, but sadly to say NO, he LUST you not loved you, and you will see in the future that what you have is an obsession, a deep desire that this obsesses you into c0nfusing your feelings with love..You really donot love him, he's a challenge for you, think aout it seriously and you'll see this is true. Also you'll NEVER trust you because your relationship started as a lied, is a lied, and this factor alone is a HUGHE factor that you'll always have doubts about your relationship. and the last is how could two people ever be happy especially if he has a good wife and children, knowing that because of you and him, you have hurt them and this also will never alow your relationship to florish to what it a relationship should be. A marry man that tells his girlfriend that he does not have sex with his wife, "IS A LIED FROM THE PIT OF HELL" think about do you really think that this man or any other marry man will not have sex with his wife......a man thinks with his third leg and when he wants it even if at home things migh aren't smooth, that will NOT STOP HIM. So my friend move on and take my advise DO NOT, FOR ANY REASON ENTERTAIN ANY MARRY MAN. You're just wasting you youthful time that you can actually spend with an eligible quaified single man. He cheated on his wife "TOMORROW WILL BE YOU" once the fantasy wears off.......Some men can't be with just one woman, I don't want a man like that I'm sure you value yourself as a woman and if you don't ask God to help you and keep away from him and any other marry man, because sooner or later you will pay for doing to his wife and children what you could be a woman enough and walk away from, if not the old sayion "PAY BACK IS A BITCH" I pray you'll do the right thing, it will be hard but you could do it, keep yourself busy get involved in a hobby do anything but keep your mind and yourself AWAY FROM HIM. GOOD LUCK

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