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josh
josh Asked:

Hello, i been with this girl for over year and a ...

hello,

i been with this girl for over year and a half i love her with ALL MY HEART and i mean it.

but she keep  contacting her ex. on my back. i always ask her if she is happy with me and she say yes. that makeme real mad i know understand why she need to look for him. i want to keep my relationship with her but i don`t know what to do them.

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Desi
Desi Answered:

Okay Im a girl I no how this works. K. You say you been with her for a year and she's calling her ex. Oh not okay. From my past she may say she loves you but not the love you would wont her to have. I have done that a few times I would call up my ex alot and want to hang out only because I wanted more attention and more things like flowers and cards. so my opion is your girl is really deep down not happy or something.It's always a red flag when a girl calls her ex. sorry.

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OronD
OronD Answered:

Hi Josh,
Desi gave you a good answer (thumb up).  "Actions speak louder than words".... and her actions say she is not happy..... If she was really happy she wouldn't do it.   The best advise I can give you is tell her that it hurts you knowing that she does it and if she continues that will mean to you that it is time to hit the road..... and watch carefully her reaction. 
Best regards,

Love is the battery of life....
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Brightboy
Brightboy Answered:

Hello, Because you've been with this girl for over a year, that's not with some, a recipe for exclusivity. If she is contacting her Ex behind your back and not telling you, or not confiding why she needs to do that, you can only conclude that she wants to continue on with both of you. It seems she doesn't feel secure enough with you, to let go of her Ex. I would tell her it's either you or him...she must make a choice. But, first see if you can get her to open up about why she feels the need to deceive and lie to you. If she doesn't come clean with her story...continues down the same path...you may want to you start looking around.    

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