Posted by Naaz 3 years ago In:

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Naaz Asked:

Hi, My boy frnd is cmin by frm Uk next month(1st ...

hi,

My boy frnd is cmin by frm Uk next month(1st week of sep)

we both belong to different religion and we decieded to get married next month

so can i knw wat all documents need to be submitted in the register office

If i need to submit my Address proof thn i jus wanna knw whtr the register department ppl will they send any kinda notification to my home address?

We are gettin married without our parents knowledge

Pls help

We have very less time to sort out things

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Colo Bob Answered:

Your question brings up many other questions. Are you old enough to get married? Are you a citizen in the country you intend to get married in? Who's religion will you practice in if you have children? Why would you exclude your parents in such an important occassion?

Marriage is for a lifetime, why hurry? Get to know each other and get to know the country you both intend on living in. It involves many give and takes and working on the relationship. Speaking of working how are you going to support each other if he is going to be new in a country? Slow down if you want a lasting relationship!

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Naaz Answered:

Hi,

Thanks for your reply

iAM 22yrs working as a secretary for a MD in software company, me and my partner are into this relation for more then 2yrs and we have known each other well in all prospects

So i dont think its required for me give more time to understand each other for gettin married

And we both are indian citizens and he got Uk tier1 visa for 3yrs .

My parents are totally againts to our relation tried many times to convience them but they are not ready to listen

so iam forced to take up this step

Many thanks once again!!

Posted 3 years ago

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Colo Bob Answered:

Naaz, Sometimes we have to exclude or make choices about relationships. In the Christian vow of marriage the words (to leave your mother and father) would sure have a place in your life. You will be starting a new family. The old family will have to make the decision to be part of it or not. If I were you I would still extend invitations to all the old family on as many events as possible. Maybe someday they will change their minds. At least you would be trying.