Discuss Sad Gramma's answer to: My wife was 15 when a boy proposed her and she ...

Don't people realize that the people they marry had entire lives before they even met one another?  People make mistakes growing up, they have bad things happen to them, they do some bad things.  Were you as pure as the driven snow for your entire life before you got married?  One day you met, and that was the very first day of your future together; whatever either of you did or was in the past is gone.  If you don't deceive one another, and you love and respect each other, you are the luckiest two people on earth.  Move on!