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HELP! I'm seeing a guy whose words do not meet his actions. He seems to be very interested in me when we're around each other, however, he hardly ever calls me when we're apart and we both live in different cities. Is he seeing other people or is he actually that busy?

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Wounded Soul Healer Answered:

Without more information, it's really hard to tell what is going on. I'll say this, it seems like he isn't paying you the attention you deserve and he seems quite selfish. If you ever feel inclined to chat about this and get this truly resolved, click my profile. Good luck

Posted 3 years ago

If you do not change direction,you may end up where you are heading

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jkgrandma Answered:

I'll offer the same advice I gave you in the other question you posted about this relationship - If you want to know what's going on, ask!

P.S. I do think the age difference between you may have a lot to do with it. By now, I am sure you realize that males and females mature at different rates; the fact that you are significantly older most likely means that the two of you are at different spots. You might keep that in mind as you contemplate whether you want to pursue a relationship with this man.

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Turn off the television and teach your children how to think. ~ Believe none of what you hear and half of what you see. (B. Franklin) ~ I do not respond in Comments ~ Trespassers will be eaten. Cowards, idiots and spammers will be shot on sight. ~ Ask a Yeddai

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Elena Answered:

I agree with JKGrandma and NJoy, dirtysouth. They gave excellent answers.

A very important thing to learn about relationships is to understand what needs to be in a relationship for you. If you want a partnership with someone like what you are describing, then, great, go for it. If, however, you want a loving committed relationship, this one is not for you. You can ask/communicate with him, but, be careful when you get the answer from him. Make sure, again, that whatever he tells you matches with what your needs are .