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I have quite a few problems, and need advice..My ...

I have quite a few problems, and need advice..My wife and I split up on a disaterous note 2 yrs ago, we have 2 boys at young age, 6, and 9 yr olds. my wife was putting through me hell in the UK, so I decided to stay with a friend, new love she is,in the USA,, Ive been here a year now, and my wife wont let me talk to my kids or even know there new address, I miss them crazy. Trouble is , I cant go back to the UK, because I have no job, money, or any place to stay at all, and no visa yet for being in the USA. My girlfriend I have now we are in love, and I dont know what to do about all this, PLEASE PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE.

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Caxie Answered:

Hi cocopops,

Your priority right now should be your kids. You should not have run off to the states to stay with your new girlfriend. What you should have done, is everything in your power to find a job and a new place to live. That would have showed your ex wife that at least you are serious about wanting a relationship with your kids. If I were you now, I would go back and try to build a life for yourself. Some credibility so that your wife will allow you to see your children again and become a part of their lives.

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Angel Answered:

Can you contact an Embassy? Advise them of your situation? You can get into trouble for being in the Us with no visa. You need to go back to the UK, and start all over from the floor up. Do you have family friends that you can rely on, that would help you till you get on your feet? You have to decide what your going to do!

If your ex-wife won't let you even talk to your kids, maybe she is punishing you!!

Beside that, you really need to go home...and get your act together......get a job and pay child support. If there's a way, trust me if you put enough effort into it

you can make a life for yourself. It may be hard, and frustating, just remember tomorrow is the next day after yesterday, and in life there are to many to count.

Your still young.

Good Luck,

Angel