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When do you stop hating your mother for poor parenting by allowing physical, mental, emotional and sexual abuse by her, sibling and relatives?

You change it to pity for her instead ..feel sorry for her for being so beaten down herself by this vicious group...feel sorry that she was soo pathetically ignorant of another's pain...feel sorry that she couldn't protect a part of her which means she can't protect herself..know that you had to be a role model for an adult and you were more human in feeling the pain than any of the others....be happy that you learned about protecting others even though it was by suffering yourself, be thankful that you realize  true empathy for others and most of all be praising God that you are not like any of them...

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John Thinks this answer is Helpful:

True, I embrace it all, and it has made me who I' am today.

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