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Sohaib,

The first thing you must do is to think of yourself as a MAN, not a "boy of 22."

A male under the age of 18 is a boy. Once he has reached 18 (or certainly 21), then he is considered a man in the eyes of the law and by most societies.

Next, I am unclear from your question as to whether or not you are currently involved in a relationship.

If you are not, then I don't think you need worry about future problems which may or may not happen.

If you are, then are you currently having premature ejaculation problems? If you are not, then don't worry about it.

If you are, then please discuss it with your physician.

Meanwhile, masturbation is perfectly normal. Unless you are doing it so much that it is interfering with other aspects of your daily living, I wouldn't worry about it.

Njoy, this is just a spam ad. They auto reply to oodles of questions and I'm almost positive they never look at any of the threads.

In fact, I suspect their stuff is all computer generated and that their email address will be phony. Just report them whenever you see them and be sure to ask Yedda to remove the account and all of the answers (not just the one in the thread you're reporting from).

That's what I do. It gets a little old, but it's better than leaving it up there or replying to it - because replying to it gives it validity.

P.S. Every now and then some fool gives this garbage a thumb up - I've no idea why. Maybe to make it seem as though it's a real person with real answers. But don't worry - it isn't.

Report, report, report!

I reported it as well. Keep in mind that Yedda is based in Israel, so their weekend starts on our Thursday, I think.

That means that there's a time lag for reporting the junk that happens Thursday through Saturday. On the other hand, it means that these ads should be gone soon, because their weekend is almost over and Yedda staff'll be back to work shortly.

I agree that it's annoying, though. I'm always tempted to read these Spammers the riot act, myself.

hello, if you are only masturbating twice a week you most likely are not adicted to it. It is perfectly healthy and normal for a man your age to masturbate that often, sometimes more. If it is CURENTLY causing you sexual difficulty with a partner then talk to your doctor or a sex therapist. If it is not causing any problems right now then you are worried for nothing. You are young and healthy, enjoy yourself.

Ad or not, I'm going to answer it. Sometimes even if the original post was fake, other people read this and the information might be helpful.

There are 2 issues here, masturbation and prolonging ejaculation. As for masturbation, there's nothing wrong with doing it, all men masturbate, most women masturbate, unless you are doing it, like 20 times a day and it's preventing you from doing other things, you are not addicted and you don't have to worry about that.

It will not make your spearm weaker (actually quite the other way around, regular masturbation or sex makes your sperm stronger and healthier) it will not take way from your chi or any other word for life energy, it will not make your future wife like you less or cause any problem in your future marriage. This is superstition.

As for prolonging ejaculation. There are a lot of ways to deal with that, one of them is have sex more then once - ejaculate quickly, then spend some more time cuddeling and making out with your wife (or girlfreind or whoever) and go for another round. Also, you can masturbate an hour or so before you have sex.

There are also some exersices you can do to train yourself to ejeculate slower (basically masturbate, and learn to stop right beofreejaculating and then start over), some men can last longer if they wear a condom.

In my experience, the best thing is to just do a lot of forplay, and make sure your wife had at least one orgazm before penetration, either by performing oral sex or using sex toys, and then, have penetration.

I reported the spam add yesterday too. The question isn't fake, just one of the answers that is not there today.

At 22 years old, you are not a boy. You are a man. Don't believe what people say, you can masturbate, there is no long lasting effect and it is healthy for you if you don't overdue it and if you have no girlfriend or wife. After you have a partner, and feel you can only have orgasm by masturbating (instead of sex with your partner) then there is something to worry about. But for now, enjoy yourself.