I recently found out my boyfriend of 3 yrs (who is 50) has been looking at alot of porn on line and looking at hook-up websites as well. He just turned 50 and I have no idea how long this has been going on. We have always had a great sex and now I ask myself what he is thinking about when he's with me. I am very sexual and I "did" trust him completely so the bedroom was open for ideas. I am heartbroken b/c I love him so much and thought this was a great relationship to last for years to come. I have pondered the thought of this being a mid-life crisis thing. I have cleaned the computer out several times and each day there is new stuff on there so I know he looks at it daily (definitely first thin in the morning). Do you have any suggestions on how to handle this because I would like to save this relationship if possible. Please help! hurting in Texas
It doesn't sound like he is hurting. It sounds like you are. How does the pornography make you feel?
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