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Should I be concerned if my boyfriend is hiding transvestite porn? Or could he just be curious?

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Albert Answered:

He might be just curios, but even if he isn't, I believe that you shouldn't be concerned.

We all have sexual fantasies, most of us have quite common fantasies, some of us have more unique ones. Those unique fantasies are too easily tagged as perversion, but actually they are coming from the same mental place which the "normal" fantasies comes from.

Regardless of the "concerning" content, I believe that you should try to talk to your boyfriend. Try to find out if he misses something in your sexual relationships, if there's anything you can do to improve it. Try to be supportive, don't blame him.

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Roebot Answered:

Dude, I don't know. I think I would be pretty freaked out. Definitely talk to the guy, but that's outside my comfort zone. For all you know maybe it was a gag gift or something, but...why would he keep it...eeek...

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Sissy Margo Answered:

I agree with both of the previous posts. some things are fantasies and fantasies only and (best left that way) You should certaily talk to him and see if it is really for himself.

The other option is he might be a crossdresser himself. I am and I am married and have been with my wife for over 11 years (six of those married and still going)

If you want to be sneaky about it ask him if you can give him a makeover, if he says yes, ask him to wear you underwear, then some clothes, if he is letting you go further and further than you might want to make sure he has not been going through your things already ; P

Just another thought if he is a crossdresser ask yourself if you think it is wrong for him to dress or do you think it is wrong because "society" thinks it was worng. Not too long ago women were shunned for wearing pants. Think about it.

Good luck!