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Past sexual abuse and relationships

Im a guy and i was sexually abuse years ago. i feel like i always need to be talking to girls. i dont think i depend on girls but when i get in a relationship i can get a little clingy. does anyone have this same issue? im me blazeofgloryy777

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Bonestructure
Bonestructure Answered:

You need to get a little psychological help. That clinginess is one of the results of having been abused. There are others. That kind of experience affects every aspect of your life, and it's not a do it yourself project. Get some professional therapy to deal with the issues.

If a little knowledge is a dangerous thing, then that makes me a burning truck filled with TNT hurtling through a rocket fuel depot.
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Ol' Yeddar
Ol' Yeddar Answered:

I couldn't have said it any better.

Keep close to Nature's heart... climb a mountain or spend a week in the woods. Wash your spirit clean.* Victims of circumstance owe it to fate. Victims of choice owe it to themselves.*One of the widest gaps in human experience is the gap between what we say we want to be and our willingness to discipline ourselves to get there.
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Aver Smith
Aver Smith Answered:

It might have something to do with the past sexual abuse that you have experienced.

 

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Lynn
Lynn Answered:

Many people have experienced sexual abuse as a child and the results of that are manifested in many different ways.  Speaking for myself, I find myself caring for little in this world so that I might not trust anyone totally as a person really should.  I'm not sure that situation will ever be changed or could be if I wanted to and what would I do about it if I could do something about it?  About all I can do is make sure my own children are never put into a situation where they can easily be sexually abused by anyone.  Don't trust anyone completely with the safety of your children, not even your spouse.  Always put up checks and balances when it comes to their safety.

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Terresa
Terresa Answered:

I am sorry to hear about the abuse. I have seen this happen to people close to me. If you think there is a problem, maybe it is worth talking to someone. No matter what, there are things to talk to someone about. Don't take the blame, but take responsibility to stay healthy. 

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