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His past bugs me, but I love him , but he compares me while being together...but I gave him everything why cant do that...

Hello, well this problem that i have i know it shouldn't be one, anyway I have almost a year that my fiance ask me to marry him but lately his past bothers me a lot, I know the past doesnt matter at all now, but im really sensitive and it was ok until he will take me to places and tell me what he did before with this girl, once we had relations and we were convinced that if i was pregnant we will love the baby, but going to this pharmacy he tells me that he was there a few years ago with this girl to get her the pill because they were screwing around and he didn't wanted to mess it up,....I think it was an unecessary comment, anyways after that he decided to tell me about that relation and he said that he didn't love her but he just had needs and he need it to F*** something...that make me feel bad because who m i now?, he told me that never love her that they just did it once, but after a few day he told me they did it without protection then they got scared got the pill and buy condoms and keep doing it...so what should i think, the first time we got romantic he just told me that he wanted to f*** and he wanted me to do the same that she did because it was really hot... U.U it hurts a lot please any advice...how can I let his past go....if he has a lot of things around from all those girls and he compares me....and I lost my virginity with him

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Elden
Elden Answered:

Oh girl get a grip, the past does matter because we are what we are because of the past. It built us. You are now the girl he f*** and that's all you will ever be. next time he will be telling a new girl how he did you.

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Okay, so you lost your virginity to him.  Now, I think you should lose him.  Just walk out of his life.  He sounds like the scum of the earth to me.  You deserve to be treated like a treasure he has found and loves and will never harm in any way.  This is not how he is treating you.  He shows no respect for you and your feelings, only his own ego.  He not only likes to F***, he also likes to brag.  Walk away from this man immediately.

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Linda Annette
Linda Annette Answered:

Thanks you NJOY...I just really didnt tried to bring the past but, he is the one that kept alot of stuff from it...and he wants me to be good with it...how..?

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Linda Annette
Linda Annette Answered:

He should respect me...Is the only thing that i asked him

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I don't think you or anyone could get used to the way he is treating you.  He should respect you more than anything in his world.  He clearly does not.  I doubt if he honestly loves you.  If this is the only thing you have asked of him, that he respect you, and he talks to you about his past in such a crude and bragging way, then he isn't doing the one thing you have asked of him.  That is disrespectful.  If he honestly loved you and didn't want to lose you, he would be bending over backwards not to upset you.  He seems like a tease, the way he is acting.  I think he cares more about himself than anyone, and the sad thing is:  He will not change.  These guys are at their best when we are dating, so just think what your life will be like if you stay with this bum.  Think about it and for goodness sake, do not settle for him.  You are a child of God and this person is treating you like the scum he is used to.  I would not stay with him, If I were you.

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LadyDarko E.
LadyDarko E. Answered:

Run away as fast as you can and do not stop until this man is not in your sight or in your mind.

He is a broken record and he is broken in more ways than one that you could not possibly understand or mend.

Get thee away.

Lady Darko

The lines are drawn in the sand, the American people are alive and awake, well most anyway. Kick it and call names, Let the Freedom Ring
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