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Partner Having an Affair at work

What would you do if your partner had an affair with someone from work, but refuses to stop working there. Would you stay in the relationship?

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harryvan
harryvan Answered:

Can you accept a third party in your relationship? Where is the commitment? How would he feel if you also had a partner other than him where you work? I think the answers should be obvious.

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OronD
OronD Answered:

Hi,


The main point is not where he works but the lack of trust....  What will prevent him from seeing her after finding a new job ? and who gurantees that he won't find a new girl at the new job ?......   It all comes down to trust and being faitfull.  Any good relation is based on 4 pillars: Trust + Openess + Communicastions + Respect..... If you want good relations you (both) have to re-built the trust between the two of you....  Without doing so your relation is in danger.  Don't focus on the place he works, better focus on the real issue (= trust).
Best regards,
Love is the battery of life....
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PeaceMaker
PeaceMaker Answered:

If that was happening the first thing I'd do , is secretly move out , do a dear Jhon Letter , divorce the person in who has commited adultary, never go back to the person no matter what they would promise , say etc.

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masondaddy
masondaddy Answered:

If your partner refuses to get a new job I would get a new Partner 4 there is no love in a cheating relationship.

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Polly
Polly Answered:

Can he find another job? This happened to me but he has had to continue to work there whilst he looks for another job. Thankfully she has now left! If we could have afforded it I would have made him leave without another job to go to though. It was the thought of him working there with her that caused a lot of our problems, even though he insisted she meant nothing to him and was relieved that I found out! If you can't trust him working there with her get out of the relationship because you are worth more than that. Good luck.

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~Jada~
~Jada~ Answered:

Whether or not I stayed in the relationship wouldn't have anything to do with the fact they work together.  For me it would have to do with whether or not I could trust my partner again.  For me... that would be a NO.  I wouldn't stay but I know people who would.  You have to determine what is best for you and your circumstances.

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jada

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