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I have a strong feeling that my boyfriend's ...

I have a strong feeling that my boyfriend's parents doesn't like me...he says they don't hate me but i have a feeling that they do. whenever i seem to mention them, i get the feeling he doesn't wanna talk about them. i spoked to the mother twice and she seem pretty nice and sincere. but i'm not convience. so my question is have you guys met the parents yet? and how can you tell if they're not too crazy about you?.

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Dawn Answered:

From what you say it seems your relationship with your boyfriend is still at the beginning stages, and it sounds a bit early to be upset about the parents' reaction just yet. Give it a little more time, especially as you mention that your boyfriend doesn't like to talk about his parents too much. Maybe he has issues with them you are not aware of, maybe they are angry at him for reasons you do not know.

After a few months, maybe you should all go out to a nice dinner out, and start a relationship with his parents. It might be easier than going to their house or inviting them to yours.

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abhishekasthana Answered:

dont passionate with his perents .

some times perents dont share their feeling reguarding their kids life .

supose u are a mom (very caring ). after some times you gought to know that your kid is attached with some one who want to attached with your family .and that time you feel that your kid is going too far form your love .so that you have to talk with their perents about your relationship and cocnfidently say that you are not going to detach him but you want to attached with them

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Dawn Answered:

I think I agree. Which is why I suggest you focus on your relationships with HIM rather than with them. When the time is right, you can deal with his parents.

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shayla Answered:

thank you soooo much dawnsilver for your encouraging words, it was really helpful and made a lot of sense. yes you're right, we are in the early stage of our relationship. what i've decided to do is put forth the effort to getting to know his parents and them getting to know me. again thanks a bunch