Discuss Cookie's answer to: Well I'm pregnant with my first child,its a girl ...

Forget about that loser. Go with the guy who cares for you, however dont let your child father get away with this behaviour. Make him pay for his action, get child support from him, because if you dont he will do the same thing to someone else. Ask for child support, and also let him to be present in your child life, because no one else can be daddy for your child exept her own father.