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Oral sex ?

I don't like to give or receive oral sex. Other wise, I love sex and have multiple orgasms. All my friends think I have a problem or that I am a prude and no man will ever accept this ? Do I have a sexual problem ?

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OronD
OronD Answered:

Hi,


You are 100% normal.  Most people like oral sex but sure not all.  That's your choice and preference and you are not expected to do something that you dislike (some people are even disgusted  !).  The person who will really love you will accept you as you are (with the good side and the weak sides [and it's NOT a weakness !]).  Don't worry at all.   On the other hand I would recommend you to try and figure out what are the reasons that you don't like oral sex.... may be that when you find the answer you'll be able to find the way even to enjoy it and reach even higher sex summits.
Best regards,      
Love is the battery of life....
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love2loveu22
love2loveu22 Answered:

It is totally normal to not enjoy giving or receiving oral sex. I have many clients who are in the exact same situation. You are not prude and you have nothing to worry about. There are a lot of men that feel exactly as you do!

So keep enjoying life and continue having fun dating. You will know when you've found the one!

Life is lessons in love. No regrets.
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SKIPTON
SKIPTON Answered:

I really enjoy almost all aspects of a sexual experience, from a romantic dinner, leading on to slight sexual teasing, and erotic conversation. When we make it to the bedroom, and disrobing followed by foreplay begins, I enjoy everything (basically) other than using my tongue for her clitoral stimulation I find it somewhat unrewarding on the woman (my techniques must be in error!), and I am not fond of the taste. While I do it sometimes, and I am well aware of the need for most women to orgasm), I would be just as happy without doing it. I have met quite a few women who are very apprehensive about the man ejaculating in her mouth. Many do not seem to like seminal fluids, and don't relax during oral sex.

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ihuntcolo
ihuntcolo Answered:

You may be normal -- buy your missing some GREAT fun!      And If the wife likes oral Would it be to god dam much to suck it up wonce in a while to plaser that big grin on he face?

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