They only invite your child as a courtesy.. You can opt out by hiring a baby sitter and going yourself and if anyone asks why you didn't bring the little tyke just tell them he has the runs and you hired a setter to care for him because this was just as important.. They will not inquire again and will appreciate your decision..

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Anonymous Comment

Beautiful.. We once shared our lives with one (lady o'shannon) she was the sweetest but her size alone kept potential burglers well beyond our property.

 
n Thinks this answer is Helpful:

I think all children, all ages, (if they are relatives of the Bride and Groom) should be invited and I think they should all (even the ones with the runs) attend.  I do not like to exclude children from all the different aspects of family gatherings, including weddings and funerals.  But I do think this answer is very helpful for most people.

 
Anonymous Comment

Thanks Njoy for the helpful vote but I was responding to the parents in that they shouldn't feel obligated to bring their children if they choose not to and the hosts shouldn't be insulted because of it. I agree, all children should be invited but not all parents should feel obligated that their children attend Innocent

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