Originated From

Obsession for my boyfriend

My boyfriend and I, we are for 3 years together, everything was going ok till few months ago when he radically changed. He became aggressive, he feels superior to me...he told me a lot of bad things and i stil can't let him go...maybe i've got an obsession for him...i don't really know what shall i do?

Liked this question? Tell your friends about it

4 Answers

Order by
Oldest to Newest
Newest to Oldest

It is time to say goodbye.  If after 3 years that is what you get you MUST understand that it is the end (unless you want to be miserable to the rest of your life).  Say a nice goodbye and close the door tightly behind you.  It won't be easy (in fact it will be VERY hard) but it is a must !.  This man id not for you.  I know what you feel and what you are afraid of.  You can believe that all your dreams and hopes will vanish, but that is the truth.  You also feel that you invested 3 years of your life and that is not fair and you deserve more.  But life is not always a garden of roses.  This relation is over, you have to realize it.  This man is not for you.   Open your heart to a new love.  The sooner you do it the better it will be.   Don't let that past event ruin your bright future. 

Love is the battery of life....

He cheated on you and now he's ragging you to make you feel bad so you won't find out he's a sleazeball. Dump him. Dump him now.

If a little knowledge is a dangerous thing, then that makes me a burning truck filled with TNT hurtling through a rocket fuel depot.

I'm not going to say that he has cheated on you, however I will say to you like I say to all my emailer with similar issues.

We tends to draw to us from our on vibes, in other words a person only do to us what we let them do, no more no less... Now somewhere in your mind you feel that you have to have this man cause you love him.. This maybe however baby girl you really need to think hard about what you are going through. I suggest that you try having a talking with him and if that don't work, try having a personal talk with yourself and ask yourself is that the way you wants to be treated?


I believe you do know very well what you should do, but you just don't want to do it! Imagine yourself with this man 10 years from now... maybe you will not recognize you then!

With OronD, I encourage you to leave him. However, ff you want to help him, encourage him to seek counseling to find out why he changed so much. He must be dealing with so much inside. However, you do not have to stay with him until he changes because the change is not guaranteed especially if he doesn't see that he has a problem. You must leave him at least until he really changes.

Jesus is the truth, the way, and the LIFE

Related Questions

Other people asked questions on similar topics, check out the answers they received:

Asked: IN a new relationship, he says i love you....kinda ...


Asked: Relationships

Why do guys hate the word "relationship"?

Asked: I was in love with my classmate for some reasons ...

i was in love with my classmate for some reasons i cant marry her now i met her after my 9 years marrige now i have some strong feelings towards her and same she have .now we both are are depressed as ...

Ask a Question... We'll forward it to people who know

More Questions

How to tell ur boyfriend that he is ur first boyfriend?

Hi Brittany, Any good relation is based on 4 pillars: Trust + Openess + communications + respect. If you want to build good healthy relations with your boyfriend better be open with him and build trust. Always tell him the truth (including when you are out of your comfort zone). Even if he is ...

After higschool I realize that men have less ...

Please read the book "Women from Venus, men from Mars" (by Grey). This book changed my life. You are 100% right, women and men do not think in the same way / patterns. To get along with the opposite gender you must realize and understand it. My best advise to you: Don't let it dissapoint you ...

Our one and only leftist.

DOES ANYONE UNDERSTAND WHY THE LEFTIST MUSLIM ATHEIST POSTER CONTINUES TO POST UNDER HIS MANY ALIASES. YOU CAN'T TELL ONE APART FROM THE OTHERS.------ He has posted under The former LadyD over and hour with 8 posts, the little tramp over an hour with 12 posts, Philo M. over 2 hours 11 posts, Harley ...

Boyfriend break up

If you still love her, then why not? Just try your best. However, please note that there are things you need to take care of before you approach him. There are a lot of ways to win a boy's heart, but you have to know what you want first. To have him back, win his trust. You have to make a lot of ...