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Maggie
Maggie Asked:

I really need advice, do i leave my boyfriend for my ex?

this is the most confusing thing that i've dealt with so far....

i've been dating this one guy for about 2 months now, and i really think i love him, cause we've know each other for about a year now. i did date him a few months ago but we broke up because i liked someone else. and that hurt him way to much. i don't want to leave him again for a guy. i really don't know why i'm dating him again because he has issues with jelousy and he's not into the things that i am so were not really alike. maby oppisites do attract..?

one of my ex boyfriends is kindof charming me and making me like him again. i really like him. i've always liked him.but he makes it all confusing. 

i hung out with my ex and we were snuggleing but we didn't kiss or anything and i felt really happy to be there. and i really did want to kiss him. but he did want to make me cheat on my boyfriend.

What do i do about that?

do i leave my current boyfriend for my ex?

 i just want everyone to be happy. i don't want anyone to get hurt.

help me. i really need advice.

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Rock
Rock Answered:

I don't think you will be able to walk between the drops. In other words, someone will be hurt. I think you should try to back off a bit to see things in perspective. It sounds like you have more feeling for your ex because of the static in your relatiionship with your current bf. Now your ex is correct about not getting too involved with you since your bf knows him. Jealousy is a very negative attribute and could make your life difficult. Perhaps you should back off from both to see each of them in better perspective. You are still young and don't have to make serious decisions yet.

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Equus
Equus Answered:

Hi Maggie ,  I don't think you are ready to be in an exculsive relationship with anyone . If you really loved your current boyfriend , you'd not feel happy being in the arms of an X Boyfriend .  Maggie , just because you didn't kiss your X BF , doesn't mean you weren't unfaithful to your current BF .  And NO ONE makes you be unfaithful , that is a choice only you make , what you are doing is called emotional infidelity , engaging in to behavior that breaks the bond and committment to your current BF ,  I agree with Rock and think you need to step back from both of these guys .  You are 18 years old and your past history shows you are not ready to be committed to one guy , and that's ok as long as you are honest with both of these guys .  Good Luck to you Maggie .  

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Ol' Yeddar
Ol' Yeddar Answered:

Oh, alas and woe is me. I suffer from acalculia.

I cannot add any more.

You have gotten wonderful advise. Use it.

Jay

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Bonestructure
Bonestructure Answered:

Just remember that exes are ex for a reason. The old guy may be comfortable, but the problems that caused ther split in the first place will still be there.

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nomorepbreaks
nomorepbreaks Answered:

Maggie,

You leave them both and take time to discover who you are as an individual. 

  1. Don't lead someone on when you know that they are not right for you.
  2. Learn to be self-sufficient.
  3. What is your vision in life?  Figure it out and work towards your goal.
  4. Take the time to learn what makes you happy.
  5. Live a healthy lifestyle and surround yourself with similar individuals that will keep you moving in the right direction.

New Year's Blessings,

nmpb 

"LEARNING is fundamental!" God, Self, Country...in that order. VISION, Change and Education=PROGRESS
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Jenny G Gladstone
Jenny G Gladstone Answered:

Maggie you sound very young and really just playing the field and dating sounds what you should be doing. People do get hurt in relationships, this is why we do take them seriously. You must accepting responsibility and acting appropriately with people you care for.

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