I had surgery done 2008 for spinal cord ...

 I had surgery done 2008 for spinal cord compression @ t10-11, they did a laminectomy, discectomy, fusion using mu 10th rib bone crushed and placed in my titanium cage. I was told it would fix me and I would be able to go back to rock wall climbing, BMX riding, figure skating, that was over 3 years ago. now I horrible neuropathy on my left side/flank to abdomen down to pelvis as well as neuropathy that starts at ribs and wraps around to back around where cage is, I have constant spinal pain there at the cage. Now my right side even hurts. I also have vaginal wall numbness, urinary problems, bowel problems, pudendum issues. My left leg always hurts to some degree. I am 43. My newest issues I have learned recently are called dominoeffect to this first surgery. I have bulging discs @@ L1-s1 with 1 herniated disc. I also have 2 fractures @ the 5 vertebral from arthritic breakdown process that comes secondarily to first procedure. I have horrible arthritis in my left hip and in flamed SI joints. If i knew now what i do I wouldn't have done it and have chosen paralysis,even though I'm a nurse. It is getting r hard to do my job now. I am on 14 different medications to try and help control all this.else do I left in life to expect now? where do I turn to Now? Injections don't last but a couple weeks any longer and I feel my Quality of life is in the dirt.