Discuss crayola's answer to: Mom loves son in law

i think i just threw up a little. why would you think about doing that? in no way is that the right thing to do. that is going against your husband and your vows. putting him and you at the risk of getting an std. there is no such thing as sex with no strings attatched in these situations. your family needs counceling or something. what is she were to get pregnant, what would the baby call you, sis or step mom? that my dear would be considered insest in some ways, he may not be blood to her, but he is family. and teaching a child how to masterbate....that is so wrong in so many ways too. sounds like your moms lack of sex is turing her into a possible pedifile. if i were you i would tell her how that is wrong in so many ways. you should not be worried about your social life and worry about those kids. you chose to have them, so learn how to take care of them, with or with out her help. she should not turn her back on your kids anyhow if you chose to not let her mess around with your husband. but she should not be doing all the work of raising them so you can go see your friends. what would this teach your children if it happened? not have morals? let anyone sleep with them or their partners? how bout sleep with each other? nothing good can come of this. and your mom is not being a good mother, if shes trying to put a guilt trip on you. i highly advise you to not go threw with this and tell her to back off. and if your vacation is not for work i wouldnt go, so you can keep an eye on your family and protect it. this is the most discusting thing ive read in a long time. and id keep track of when shes with your husband, and make sure shes not hitting on him when your not around. there are plenty of dating sites and what not for her to find her own guy, take advantage of it. dont lower yourself and family for your mom to have an orgasim. but her a vibrator if shes so sick of her fingers. or a male prostatute or something, dont let her tear apart your family, no matter how much she says it wouldnt, it will. its already bothering you. it will tear apart your family with the jealousy you have, loose trust, just make you go crazy. dont go threw with this, you go to church, go against your vows=going against your family and god. not a verry good idea.