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What do i do when im the mistress

i realy like this guy but he has a girlfriend he says that he really likes me and that i mean alot to him and im really starting to like him alot like loving him and he says to me that he likes me so much that he feels like hes so close to loving me.....but he has been with this girl for a while and cant break up with her yet. i really wanna be with him and i love every minute with him when i see him we talk almost all day, even if hes with her he tries to get away to call me to hear my voice. i have been hurt so many times that im afride of getting hurt again....im going crazy i dont know if i can do something to win him or if i should jus be patient or what i shoulddo im going crazy i dont wanna get hurt again please give me some advice i really have strong feelings for him

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Alice
Alice Answered:

He is playing you for a fool, he isn't married to the girlfriend and so if he felt as strongly about you as you do him he would end the other relationship. Also do you really want a guy that would sneak away and call someone else?

There is a saying "If he'll do it with you, he'll do it to you"

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Dakhra
Dakhra Answered:

You are so being played!

If someone can't break up with someone - thats such a red flag..  Seriously!  You can't win him over, there is nothing you can do to do that because he is already in a relationship and "Close to loving you" (What is that?)... He can't break up with his current gf just yet.... The man has a big L on his forehead...

Move on.

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Sexpert
Sexpert Answered:

Be strong and finish it with him.  If he really loves you then he will realise that he needs you in his life and he will be forced to make a decision.

best of luck

Have fun, but be safe, use a condom!
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janissa10
janissa10 Answered:

If you don't want to get hurt, the best thing you can do is stay away from men who have a g/f or are married. Chances of him leaving her for you are very, very slim. A man can say whatever he likes but the reality is in his actions. He is still with his g/f..which means he probably has no intention of leaving her. He calls you while she is around..so you know he can't be trusted. You have put yourself in a bad position and should get out now. Better to end it sooner than later because you are setting yourself up for disappointment and a lot of hurt.

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Kate
Kate Answered:

You are asking the question so you know what to do . Stop letting him make a fool of you .

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pat
pat Answered:

 Word to the wise, You have been given a lot of good advice so take it and run, this guy is playing games he has his cake and he's eating it too. I like the saying if (he'll do it with you ,he'll do it to you). I know that you care for him and it is not easy letting go, but in the long run you'll be glad you did.

take care.

Always protect your heart and listen to yourself make good choices. be careful for what you wish for you just might get it and find out later it was not what you wanted after all.
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Gina
Gina Answered:

First of lol don't want to be mean but you shouldn't be involved with a guy who has a girl.  You should have respect and the same goes for him.  He he wanted to be with you he would leave his girl but he isn't.  So he is playing you!  See I don't want to be mean but I'm honest and straight up I can't stand girls like you who try to come between someone else's relationship.  So that's messed up!!!

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katiegirl619
katiegirl619 Answered:

YOu should really try to figure out why you're excepting this from this guy. My guess is you have low self esteem. Maybe you can talk to a therapist , make sure they are a good one. Ask around to find a good one.

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