I miss my ex-boyfriend i want him back!!!!

You sound like a caring and loving girlfriend. That's exactly why I think you deserve something better. If your bf treats you bad, and being rude to you just because he got a new car, which means that the car had made some change in him, then he doesn't deserve a gf like you. I know, it's hard, and the fact that you go to the same church, and attend the same college probably makes it even harder. But you have to be strong, it's for you own good. Try to avoid him as much as you can, find a new hobby in order to distract your mind from thinking about him. I do believe that time will tell, and you'll get over him finally.

I think you should step away for a while , you should let him do some thinking . Obviously you know what you want and seems like he doesn't. Try writing him a letter explaining why you are stepping away and let him know that you feel like you are bothering him, and that you are not going to soon and if he wants to contact you he will know how too. I think that the minute you won't show any interest in him something inside him will wonder How Come? It will take time though . If he won't contact you in any way maybe you should move on ....

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personally I just got out of a relationship with the boy I still love and he acts the same way but sometime you have to look outside of the box. Its part of a mans nature to play with a womens heart when he knows that she loves him but at the same time its part of a womens nature to let him know that you have options and when he sees that then hell know what he had.Eventhough he is kinda acting like a "bitch" now, hell eventually change and if he doesnt well thats his lost. Girl my only advise to you is to move one. Its going to be hard but you have to remember that yu have a life and its your job to live it out to the fullest.

i've had the same exact problem as you. and i still love my exboyfriend too. everyone is telling me also to move on. but they dont see how hard it is to & i keep telling myself its for the best. and i know exactly how you feel you just wanna scream at everyone and tell them that you DONT wannt to move on. 

and it hurts when you see them with different people. trust me. everytime i try to contact my ex he either gives me rude answers or completely ignores me. and i tell him that i love him but all he gives back is a simple "ok." it's been an on and off relationship. sometimes he likes me sometimes he doesn't. but girl, your too good for him. if he doesn't want you. you just walk away.

      and if you still desperatly like him. don't get all obsessive on him. because from experiences, i've known the boy will just igorn you. try and flirt once in a while. take it one step at a time. have a "you and me time" tell him how you feel. maybe sometimes bring up the good times you shared and tell him you don't like the way he's acting towards you. hope i helped! and i will keep you in my prayers.

girl you are so right

Don't chase him anymore...It's stroking his ego when you do that...Just let him be...Don't contact him, he'll soon see that whomever he's with or whatever he's doing is not nearly as good as what he had with you! I'm going through a breakup myself right now...that was HIS idea!