Why do men rather please there hateful mother than there wife

Those men haven't learned to be afraid of their wives...yet....they are still tied to Mama's apron strings and they are afraid of Mother's reaction to everything they elect to do.  Those little boys haven't grown up and may never grow up.

Because some men just never grow up.

Because mother is a mother is a mother !.  On top of it, some men remain the classic "little mother's boy"...... In fact too many men are like that. 

"toomany men are like that"    OranD tells us.  I agree OranD, and I think that is the fault of the mothers own insecurities.  Those mothers actually, deep down, do not want to "lose" their little boys.  That is a very selfish mother in my book.