How do men usually act if they are really in love? It shouldn't be all related to sex or being sexually attracted and sending love kisses every time a girl gets a message is it?? Whats "care" in a ...
I guess this depends on the guy. Anyway with me, I'm not into sending a lot of messages and passing my time complimenting her.
I feel more in love, not when I'm not with my girlfriend but when I'm actually with her. It's just this feeling of being totally in the moment, happy and fulfill. Being entirely attracted to her on emotional and physical level.
I wouldn't actually consider, you should tell if a guy loves you or not, just by the amount of messages he sends, or he compliments you all the time and does everything for you. It has nothing to do with that, I disagree many times with my girlfriend, and like to do stuff my own way and has nothing to do with not liking her. It's just because I like myself more lol :)
However, for me it's more about the connection I have with her when we are together. I also care for her, not that I think about it but my girl tells me all the time that she feel protected, when she is with me. So it's pretty much, a guy being there to protect you no matter what.