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im in love with someone else but married to another what can i do

Let me tell you from experience. I was in this very same situation 8 years ago. I was married for 30 years, and was VERY unhappy. I spent ALOT of time alone. I met a man that I thought was so perfect. He gave me what I wanted in a marriage that my ex did not. Before deciding, ask your self these 4 questions.

1.Do you still love him enough to stay? 2. Is is worth the break up of your marriage to make 2 people happy? 3. What do you stand to lose if you leave? 4. Is there any possiblility for trying to make the relationship work in all aspects of the marriage? My new husband and I have been married for 6 1/2 years and I DO NOT regret any part of the dicision to leave. I am the happiest I have ever been in my entire life and I have had everyone I know tell me that. They see the difference. My new husband was married to a woman for 12 years. She had 3 kids by her ex. My new husband doesn't have any children of his own. Their marriage was over long before I came into the picture. I wish you the best of luck.Smile


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