What makes a man fall in love?
Unfeigned affection is a help. If your actions do not come naturally, from the heart, the facade will deteriorate rapidly. That goes for both the man and the woman. In short, no one can pretend at affection. It can be a waiting game but it is well worth the wait.
Excellent answer Rocmike3, I wanted to answer this question myself, about how my husband fell in love with us. Everything about our marriage comes straight from the heart.