Read Proverbs 31.
Cosmo's for dingbats.
Men do without them.
All of their sort.

My wife and I
Were married duly young.
We're happy together.
Though I am a wreck.

Came back from Vietnam.
No feet, hands ruined.
Took 10 minutes to write
4 lines above.

Why does it have to be a man? I want to answer this so I will. Um love...haven't found that yet and certainly not looking. I watch too many lifetime movies I guess but to me it is sponteaity yet knowing you can depend on them. Its love but also friendship, it isn't restraining or sufficating. Its the craziness that goes in to it which drives you crazy but the saniety that keeps it. Also, I know some settle and sooner or later they will find love within that. Its about companionship. I guess it sort of cancels everything out but then again I speak about "movie love" and fairy tales here. Yes I believe its out there and yes I have love for friends and family. I think trying to find love is a disappointment, basically pointless, it finds you (some times when you least expect it!) Thank you for letting me stick my two cents in okay. Happy Holidays!

• Marriage and I guess love are two different things I want to add! I don't intertwine the two any longer, it appears there is a difference between "loving" someone and being "in-love". 

           Sorry for my spelling, I am terrible I know. Spell checker has proven to be my enemy. Also, perhaps its good not to be so dependent. I may learn to spell new things this way hmmmm... :)                                               

The best six minutes of the day, now past the remote and the Doritos. Give a guy this on a continuous basis and he will fall in love with you. Some others also require beer.

OHHH, the look , feel, and the way the car handles the road. ...How nicely the big screen hangs on the wall. ...The top sirloin steak broiled to perfection. ...Also, that sexy look she gives him first thing in the morning....

Love...or Sex... big difference, one is animal instinct, as the other is caring, being there when needed, yes "never having to say I'm sorry", and trust, but most important your best companion..and a man knows that.. when he finds his soulmate..

For me, good sex, a good mind, a certain look and good conversation. If you want to argue with the sex, go ahead, but you'd be wrong. Men fall in love for sex, it's the primary way they express love and the primary way they receive love. You may not like that, but that's the way it is. The good mind and good conversation are peculiar qualities I prefer. Not all men do. But after all, you can't have sex 24 hours a day. I know, I've tried.

Unfeigned affection is a help.  If your actions do not come naturally, from the heart, the facade will deteriorate rapidly.  That goes for both the man and the woman.  In short, no one can pretend at affection.  It can be a waiting game but it is well worth the wait.

love is an emotional feeling all men and women have. There is just something about people they fall in love. But some say it is in the heart and that i do belive is so true. Men and women were not made to live alone so god created eve for man look at the bible it so states this fact.