Ive been with my wife for 6 years but i cheated a few times i actually fell in love with one of my affiars i think. i love my wife but i also miss my the girl im having a affair with. dont know what ...
Well it sounds to me like you're in a tough situation here. Since you have feelings for both women , I would see a trained professional to help me sort out my feelings. They may suggest you seperate from your wife, assuming she hasn't filed for divorce, and quit seeing the girlfriend, until you have gotten your heart and head straightened out. If your employer offers an EAP, employee assistance programs, that would be a good place to start as it is usually free for so many visits. You would be amazed at how a therapist can help you find your real feelings amongst the chaos that sometimes goes on when your heart and head are at odds with each other. I wish you much luck with this, my friend.
