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What should i do?

I think I have a real problem and i can use your advice, I'm 29yrs and not married, i want to; but i cann't because of this problem; in my relations i tend to be a monogomist ( sex wise) the thing is my sexual ability is very high and till now i haven't met a woman that can fully satisfy me (not even married women), and since i donn't like having a relation with more than one person i fear that getting married will put me in a real uneasy situation, I even tried looking for solution to decrease this appatite but unfortunately it didn't workout. i can realy use some good advice.

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OronD
OronD Answered:

Hi,


That's what many people would define as "a good problem"....  and many wish they had a stronger sex drive.... No, please don't look for ways to reduce your sex drive that's not the proper solusion.....  what you really need is to find a partner that will have the same drive for sex as yours.... If you look hard you'll sure find.  I met several ladies whose sex drive was stronger than mine (and I admit it's high).....
Best regards,
Love is the battery of life....
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MusicIsMyHotHotSex
MusicIsMyHotHotSex Answered:

Sexual chemistry is very important in a relationship so I understand your plight,but you come off sounding a little selfish and arrogant.Maybe you never stay with a woman long enough for her to get comfortable and show you her true self in bed.Sometimes even the most confident woman can be shy when it comes to sex and part of the intimacy is learning what your partner likes.Perhaps your relationships are not lacking in satisfaction but in compatibilty.Try seeking women who are fun and adventurous in life...it's likely they will be fun and adventurous in bed as well.Good luck!

MY inferiority complex isn't as good as YOURS
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zulul
zulul Answered:

If your entire life you were a monogamist like you mentioned, then you shouldn't be afraid of marriage. Do not rush anything , once you find a perfect match in bed you'll know,  accompanied with a perfect match  in everything outside of your bedroom then you can marry her. Your sex drive shouldn't be an obstacle,  I wonder  if you will be willing to marry a women with a higher sex drive then yours?

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Layla
Layla Answered:

You sound like you are just my type. I am the same way, it's all I think of. That would amke us Nympho's

ready and willing
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stuartletterman
stuartletterman Answered:

Get online and look for a woman who can keep up, most women don't advertise their high sex drive to all and sundry in everyday life! Your sex drive will decrease with age anyway so don't torture yourself over it.

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