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My guy wants sex all the time some times i am tired what should i do

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OronD
OronD Answered:

Hi,


You are lucky.... read (here, at Yedda) how many women complain of no or low sex...... But yes it can be a problem if he wants too often.....  You have all the rights to say "no".... but be smart, there are 1000 ways to say no without hurting him....  Find the smart and sensetive way to refuse.....
Best regards,
Love is the battery of life....
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SKIPTON
SKIPTON Answered:

Successfully dealing with the sensitive issue that occurs when one partner is not "in the mood" for sex, for whatever reason, can be a very important, positive step in your relationship. Failed sexual expectations can be quite damaging even if such hopes are unrealistic. And, you cannot be expected to always be ready for sex just because he is.

 

It is very important that the two of you communicate here by talking, and in such a fashion that it does not become an arguement. Let him know that you love and really enjoy sex with him, and that it's great for the relationship. But, there are times, for instance when you are tired or when youv'e had a very busy day, that all you would like to do is go to bed and have a cuddle. Would that be ok with you?

 

Good luck with such a discussion!

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zulul
zulul Answered:

I think you should be grateful for the situation you are in. Try talking to him about it but please do it when ever he is tired , don't do it right before you know he is going to initiate something. Try talking to him whenever you both are out of bed that way he won't get too disappointed.

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GoodKarma
GoodKarma Answered:

He needs to learn that you aren't his sex doll and that it takes two to tango. There isn't any way around it since this is a basic issue in any ralationship in which one side wants more sex than the other. You need to be sensitive but also explain your position.

It's important to know how to compromise in a relationship and that's exactly what your boyfriend will need to do.

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