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Love. What to do?

Sorry, but I'm a little bit drunk.. So, I've a short question. There is one girl I really love. She is so cute, so beautiful and admirable.. The only thing is that she is just 15 years old and I'm 18 now. What do you think? Should I tell her about my love for her? I'm really confused... Help me.. please!

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hemplover
hemplover Answered:

I know that some people would have a problem with my answer... but I have to tell you that my first love, I met when I was 17.  The guy Adam was 26.  We were actually just friends until I was 18 because it just didn't seem right to be anything more than that.  But we were happy for 3 years and he's still a really important part of my life.  Yes, being 15 and 18 is hard.  But, maybe for now, you could just spend time together and make sure that you don't get carried away.  I wouldn't say it's a good idea to get into a super sexual relationship because of the fact that she's not of age.  But you can be together.  What does she think?

It's not the mountain we conquer... but ourselves
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lebenlechzer
lebenlechzer Answered:

I don't want a super sexual relationship... Actually I just want to spend some time with her. But it's hard not to care about what other say when they get to know about such a relationship. What she thinks? I don't know as I didnt tell her yet.

Cogito ergo sum. René Descartes
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climbingstitch
climbingstitch Answered:

I think it would be best to talk to her about it.  I think that for now, if the two of you are just friends and you make sure that her parents and your parents are comfortable with this relationship, it'll be ok.  What other people say only matters so much.  Just do what your heart tells you and be honest with your friends.  Good luck man.

"Human beings are the only creatures on earth that allow their children to come home" -Bill Cosby
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hollouise
hollouise Answered:

Are you in high school together?  I just think that at age 18, a guy is looking more for a physical relationship and at 15, she probably isn't.  She's still looking for that special guy.  You could be that guy.  Just talk to her, tell her how you feel slowly, and see if she's interested.  Just remember to take things slow =)

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Shima
Shima Answered:

Lets not be so innocent here not all of us waited till the age of 18 to start  our first sexual relationship. I think you can express your feelings towards her talk it over and take it slow and easy no pressuring off course. You mentioned you don't want a super sexual relation ship with her. Thats great its always better to build a true  relationship before the sexual intimacy.

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